Historically, the belief that we are separate from God was the chief differentiator between spirituality and most of the world’s major religions. Over the last few decades, however, many churches have embraced a more spiritual point of view.
Organized religion typically represented God as external from humankind while spirituality portrays the divine as an integral aspect of our humanity.
Religion and spirituality can certainly coexist. Each has its benefits and drawbacks. Organized religion plays a vital role in building community but often positions itself as an indispensable intermediary between worshipers and God.
Spirituality encourages direct contact with God, but its lack of structure and its declaration that we are divine children of God can lead to confusion and an unwarranted sense of spiritual superiority.
Traditionally, religion has been sociological and institutional while spirituality is individual and personal. Many organized religions demand that you follow an external set of rules based on the experience of others while spirituality encourages you to seek your own experiences through inner exploration and discovery.
Organized religion is all about the depths of your beliefs. Spirituality is all about the depths of your consciousness. Dogmatic religion preaches to us about God while spirituality teaches us to achieve God consciousness.
Organized religion has often been presented as a closed, hierarchal system. In such an environment, all questions lead to official explanations and individual interpretation is discouraged.
Spirituality is an open, multifarious path with many questions leading to answers that cannot be fully grasped in the questioner’s current state of consciousness. Individual evolvement is mandatory.
Many organized religions assert that their method of worship is the only true path to God while ancient spiritual wisdom maintains that all rivers lead to the same ocean. Thus, when conflict arises, religion tends to divide while spirituality unites.
Ultimately, as we leave this world, we will all discover that there is but one truth. It is up to each of us to determine how we live until we draw our final breath.
God made Truth with many doors to welcome every believer who knocks on them.
Kahlil Gibran
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August 14, 2008 at 7:23 PM
Phil, that’s one of the best discussions about the difference between spirituality and religion that I’ve read. There are so many mysteries about how the Universe works. When I stop to think about death, that is one thing I look forward to–understanding more of the truth.
Blessings,
Susan
August 14, 2008 at 7:32 PM
Thank you for your kind words, Susan. Yes, it’s exhilarating to think of one day pulling aside the veil and gaining access to the mysteries of the universe. But if it’s all the same to you, I’m willing to be patient for another 68 years or so!
April 24, 2009 at 1:29 AM
I’m not sure that your premise “The belief that we are separate from God is the chief differentiator between spirituality and most of the world’s major religions” is correct. It is certainly a part of the difference in most cases.
If I were to sum it up in one line I would say the difference is that spirituality is a direct relationship with the Divine and Religion is a man made system to mediate and control that relationship. A bhakti oriented spirituality would still hold the worshiped as separate from the worshiper.
Look at the founders of the major religions and what those religions have become and it seems pretty clear. Each had a direct relationship with the Mystery that is hard to find in the book law of the religions that grew in their name.
April 24, 2009 at 8:52 AM
Well, yes, you’re right, but that’s pretty much saying the same thing, isn’t it?
April 25, 2009 at 1:14 AM
Hi Phil
not really, as a direct relationship with the Divine can, and often does still place God outside of oneself, that relationship doesn’t have to be within the confines of a religion though.
Take nature for example, being in it is a spiritual experience for many, they feel God in nature and the experience of that is outside themselves, which is why back in the city they don’t have it and seek to be in nature.
I hope this makes it clearer
April 25, 2009 at 1:19 AM
I disagree, Ray. While the physical manifestation of nature may be outside ourselves, the divine consciousness behind it is also in us, which is why such beauty resonates within us. We feel the connection because everything is connected. When we are aligned with the Divine Mind, there is no separateness. Rumi said it best:
For those who realize that everything is from God, everything is the same.
April 25, 2009 at 1:36 AM
Phil
I’m not saying that God is separate from nature, I have had direct experience of the truth of Unity, it isn’t my everyday lived experience so my spirituality embraces times of direct knowing of Unity and times of separation
Your premise was “The belief that we are separate from God is the chief differentiator between spirituality and most of the world’s major religions” I am suggesting that spirituality can and does exist in the experience of separateness from God.
blessings
Ray
April 25, 2009 at 9:16 AM
I understand what you’re saying. It’s all a matter of how we frame what we’re looking at. Ultimately, separateness from God is an illusion. When the soul identifies with the mind and body, it unconsciously manifests as ego; when the soul realizes its divine nature, it abandons ego and consciously and joyously merges with spirit.
If we’re speaking from ego, it seems to make sense to talk about the experience of separateness from God. At the same time, however, we are one with God, and will always be so. I think we’re in agreement on all this, it’s just a matter of what perspective we’re coming from.
June 19, 2009 at 1:27 PM
Hello!!!
Dispositionism is a religion that I recently came up with! The local newspaper did an article on it, and it has 50-60 local members. (I have only shown it to about 75 people)
If you agree or disagree or have any questions or comments, please email me at j.boswell14@gmail.com
Firstly, IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN.
Dispositionists believe that a being capable of creating a universe (or whatever he/she/it did) would be intelligent, insightful, and understanding enough to judge one not based on one’s BELIEFS, but rather on one’s CHARACTER.
Thus the way to obtain any reward that a god might offer (be it heaven, reincarnation, self-enlightenment, peace, or whatever) is to practice and promote PEACE, KINDNESS, AND UNDERSTANDING.
Think about it! Do you honestly believe that a god would send Ghandi to burn in hell simply because Ghandi had the “wrong” beliefs?!
HOW IT DIFFERS FROM OTHER RELIGIONS
All other religions (to my knowledge) either promote one set of ideas over another, require “faith,” or claim to know the past acts of their god.
Not to attack Christianity, but I get a lot of Christians who claim that God judges you based on your character. However, Jesus said “the only way to the Father is through Me.” This is just one example. Please understand that I am not attacking Christianity. Most true Christians satisfy the guidelines of Dispositionism.
Consider the possibility that a god would want you to be a good person more than he would want you to make the right guess about religion.
June 19, 2009 at 1:36 PM
I’m sure your ideas will appeal to some, Jake. We need to have different takes on the same core messages to ensure that people can find what resonates best for them. As long as people keep moving in the right direction, it’s all good!