Turn Your Losses Into Opportunities

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Hee Ah Lee, concert pianist

Sybil Archibald saw the video of four-fingered pianist Heeah Lee on this blog yesterday and immediately posted it on her own blog with the following comments:

Over the past 6 months or so my hands have almost completely contracted into fists. I have limited movement in my two index fingers and a bit more in my thumbs and that’s it. I get along just fine, but from time to time I feel the loss of my ability to play the piano. Today I was a concert and I felt the twinge, just a seductive hint of self-pity. When I came home this video was in my email via Triumph of the Spirit.

I mean, do you think God is trying to tell me something? The joy and life in this woman is astounding for anyone, not just a person with disabilities. She embraces what she has, her gift, with gusto and joy. I loved playing the piano, truly, but I never had a gift for it. I am no musician, more like an amateur crafter filling a Saturday afternoon. I believe this video was sent to me to show me how to let go of suffering over my hands and embrace my gift. Each of us has a gift, perhaps not the one we would choose or perhaps we dislike the way it is given. But, wow, look what is possible if we embrace it.

Wise words, Sybil. The moment we recognize the gifts inherent in our suffering, the greater our capacity to transcend our anguish, even as grief and pain threaten to consume us. Fighting our suffering only produces more suffering. When we start looking for the value in what we are experiencing, healing begins.

The things that happen to us do not matter; what we become through them does.
Sri Gyanamata

While a damaged body or a broken heart may signal that the life you once knew is over, it does not mean that life itself is over. Once you have regained your equilibrium, alternative paths reveal themselves.

Turn your losses into opportunities. If you can’t run, then swim. Be like a river. When a tree falls down in front of you, find another avenue to continue. Even if the new activity isn’t as fulfilling as the old one, you’re still engaging the world.
Father Paul Morrissey






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4 Responses to “Turn Your Losses Into Opportunities”

  1. Deb Reilly Says:

    Sybil, I absolutely love you.

  2. Phil Bolsta Says:

    I’m sure Sybil appreciates that, Deb!

  3. Michele Says:

    WOW! What a powerful post. Thank you!

  4. Phil Bolsta Says:

    You’re very welcome, Michele!

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