After years of grieving for his stillborn daughter, my friend John Manley
, an author of metaphysical speculative fiction
, stumbled upon a concept that at last healed his pain and brought him peace. Whether you agree with his conclusion or not is beside the point. What is
important is to find a spiritual or religious path that feels like home to you, and actively work toward crafting a worldview that helps you make sense of the world.
Here, in three parts and in John’s own words, is his story.
DOES REINCARNATION EXPLAIN WHY BABIES ARE STILLBORN?
On Easter Monday, 2005, around 9 AM, I received a phone call. “Mr. Manley, your wife is going in for an emergency c-section…”
It was too soon. Months too soon.
The hospital (where Nicole had already been admitted) was over 45 minutes away. By the time I arrived, it was all over. All efforts at resuscitating our newborn baby girl had been fruitless.
I’ve never been more upset over anything in my life.
Nicole and I went through a number of child loss books. Most of them too bloated for my liking and often off the mark from how I believe the universe operates. But one of those books, however, noted a survey that said that parents who believe in reincarnation recover far more quickly from the loss of their children.
Reincarnation, for me, has always (more…)