I was looking forward to meeting my friend, Lien, at Ecopolitan, my favorite restaurant, around 2:00. I arrived before 1:30, laptop in hand, looking forward to getting a little work done before she showed up.
As I walked in, a lovely young woman looked at me as if she had been waiting for me to walk through the door. “You’re here every time I am,” she said with a friendly smile. What a nice greeting! I Introduced myself and asked her dining companion if this was her first time at Ecopolitan. I said, “Nice to meet you both,” turned around and saw a young man looking at me just as purposefully. “It’s his first time too,” he said, gesturing to his elderly dining companion as if we were the best of friends. More introductions and small talk followed. I handed out bookmarks for my book to all four of them and asked them to leave a blog comment or send me an e-mail so we could stay connected.
Ecopolitan has always been my Cheers—I know everybody and everybody knows me—but there was an especially friendly vibe in the house today. Before sitting down to wait for my friend, I ducked in the bathroom. Glancing in the mirror, I realized, “Oh-oh. I forgot to shave.” Foolish, foolish Phil. Did I get angry at myself? Did I start stressing out? Nope. I laughed. I’ve trained myself to slow down and view my mess-ups as opportunities for mini-adventures. No matter what is in front of me, I do my best to greet it with gratitude and these three words: As you wish. I decided on the spot to drive the six miles back home to make myself more presentable. So off I went, bidding adieu to my newfound friends as I left.
What gifts did I find in my failure to shave? Plenty:
• If I hadn’t arrived at Eco when I did, I wouldn’t have connected with the people I met there in quite the same way.
• It felt good to know that I was getting better at staying calm and present in supposedly stressful situations.
• Instead of wasting half an hour berating myself, I stayed peaceful and happy, which enabled me to mentally compose a key addition to the book I was working on by the time I got back home. A wonderful bonus!
• Last but not least, my mistake provided me with a good blog post! It feels good knowing that my oversight may provide insight to others.
Oh, by the way, after shaving, I walked back into Ecopolitan at 2:00 on the nose. Made it by a whisker!
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ABOUT PHIL BOLSTA
Phil is the author of Through God’s Eyes: Finding Peace and Purpose in a Troubled World, a comprehensive guide to living a spiritual life. Who will benefit from reading it?
Anyone who is on a spiritual path, or wants to start one
Anyone who loves life, or wants to learn how to
Anyone who is happy, or wants to be happier
Through God’s Eyes won first place in the “Spirituality and Inspirational” category at the San Diego Book Awards on June 22, 2013.
Here is a two-minute video introduction to Through God’s Eyes.
• an overview of the book
• the complete table of contents
• the Foreword by Caroline Myss
• my Introduction
• chapter excerpts
• a sample end-of-chapter story
• endorsements from authors and thought leaders
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Phil’s eBook, The Logic of Living a Spiritual Life: Supporting a Life of Faith Through Logic and Reason, is now available for 99 cents on Amazon.
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In this eBook, you’ll find answers to questions like:
• What is the cornerstone of a spiritual life, and why?
• What is the secret to liberating yourself from other people’s judgments and expectations?
• Why is there an exception to “Everything happens for a reason”?
Those who worship logic instead of God are only half right. Not only is it logical to believe in God and to live a faith-based life, the existence of a loving, benevolent God that governs all creation is perhaps the only systematic worldview that explains every aspect of life.
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Phil is also the author of Sixty Seconds: One Moment Changes Everything, a collection of 45 inspiring, life-changing stories from prominent people he interviewed, including Joan Borysenko, Deepak Chopra, geneticist Dr. Francis Collins, acclaimed sportswriter Frank Deford, Dr. Larry Dossey, Wayne Dyer, Dan Millman, Caroline Myss, Dr. Christiane Northrup, Dr. Dean Ornish, Dr. Rachel Naomi Remen, Dr. Bernie Siegel, James Van Praagh, singer Billy Vera, Doreen Virtue, Neale Donald Walsch, and bassist Victor Wooten.
Reading this book is like spending a few minutes face to face with each of the contributors and listening to their personal stories. Click here to read unsolicited testimonials from readers. Learn more by visiting the official Sixty Seconds website.
Sixty Seconds was one of three finalists in the General Interest/How-To category at the 12th annual Visionary Awards presented by COVR (Coalition of Visionary Resources) in Denver on June 27, 2009.