Fallen Idol

In a March 2 online article for Entertainment Weekly, the newly minted Top 13 American Idol finalists were  asked, “What sets you apart from the other contestants? Jeremy Rosado replied, “I know that I have the favor of God, and that’s gonna get me farther than anything else.” Now, I don’t know exactly what Jeremy meant by that, but I imagine his comment alienated more than a few of the voting viewers. Come across as “holier than thou” on a TV talent show, even if that’s not what you intended to convey, and you might as well press the Eject button yourself. Sure enough, last night Jeremy became the first singer to be eliminated. Even though he wasn’t the most talented singer in the bunch, my heart goes out to him. I can only imagine the anguish and humiliation that come with being rejected on live TV, and especially at such a young age.

So what does “having the favor of God” really mean? Anyone can attain the favor of God simply by striving to live in attunement with peace, love, truth and beauty. As Hazrat Inayat Khan wrote:

Everyone shows harmony or disharmony according to how open he is to the music of the universe. The more he is open to all that is beautiful and harmonious, the more his life is tuned to that universal harmony, and the more he will show a friendly attitude towards everyone he meets, his very atmosphere will create music around him.

Having the favor of God is all about internal rewards, not external results. Loving God won’t directly help you win a singing contest, a football game or a book contract. What it will help you win is a deep and abiding joy for life. And when you authentically live in harmony with the music of the universe, life gets easier; you are “in the flow,” and all the universe seems to conspire on your behalf. You are naturally kinder, more compassionate, more self-aware and more humble. Combine all that with talent and skill, and yes, you likely will go further in life—and perhaps even in TV talent shows. But more importantly, living in harmony with the music of the universe will help you deal more positively and constructively with whatever results do come your way.

What’s crucial to remember is that people can tell the kind of person you are just by the way you show up in the world. You don’t need to tell them. In fact, if you feel the need to tell people how special you are, you probably don’t realize that everyone else, in their own way, is just as special as you are. And that means you’re in need of a wake-up call—like getting voted off a TV talent show. So in that regard, yes, perhaps God did Jeremy a favor.


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2 Responses to “Fallen Idol”

  1. debreilly Says:

    Great title, Phil. And an excellent post. Life would be terrifying if God did not love us all equally. I used to get anoyed when I heard comments like the one Jeremy Rosado made. How silly!

  2. Phil Bolsta Says:

    Thank you, Deb. Yes, we are all God’s children, and we are all equally loved.

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