Thanksgivings Past and Future

dad-giving-baby-boy-botttleAt a Thanksgiving potluck today, I was handed a three-month-old boy and had the privilege of feeding him his bottle for a while. Twenty minutes later, our host and another guest treated us all to an informal concert, playing the piano and the violin respectively. As I sat there, listening to the music and watching the woman next to me holding the same baby boy, I thought back to Thanksgivings past.

When I was a child, all the adults at our Thanksgiving dinners were firmly in control of the world around me. Some of them were in their prime, with their best years ahead of them and with dreams yet to fulfill. It was their world, and I was just a wide-eyed guest.

Today, virtually all of those people are gone. My contemporaries and I now inhabit the world they left behind. Their world is now our world. But only for a time. I looked at the face of that baby boy next to me and envisioned him at a Thanksgiving celebration forty or fifty years from now. He won’t remember any of the people who fawned over him at his first Thanksgiving. They will all be long gone and long forgotten, just as the grown-ups from my early Thanksgivings are gone, nothing but wispy memories and black-and-white faces in faded photographs.

This world is only ours for a short while. As Steve Jobs said in his famous commencement address at Stanford in 2005:

No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.

In light of this truth, the question we must ask ourselves is this: Before I am cleared away, what can I do to make myself a better human being and the world a better place and why aren’t I already doing those things?

family-thanksgiving-tableI wonder how many adults from my early Thanksgivings brushed off that question, believing that time was their friend and they could squander it freely without consequence. I wonder how many of them found themselves at the end of their lives with more regrets than triumphs.

So what are you doing today, this week, this month to improve yourself in every way imaginable and deliver all the beauty that only you can contribute to the world? What can you do in the next twelve months to make your world and everyone in it give thanks that you didn’t wait one more day to start becoming who you came here to be?






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2 Responses to “Thanksgivings Past and Future”

  1. Judy Says:

    Great insight!

  2. Phil Bolsta Says:

    Thank you, Judy!

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