Posts Tagged ‘happiness’
March 16, 2012

Lenny Dykstra then
In the
March 12, 2012 issue of Sports Illustrated, a special report by writer David Epstein explains how former baseball star
Lenny Dykstra, now forty-nine, lost millions of dollars and wound up being sentenced to three years in jail for fraud. Here’s an excerpt:
In the unreleased documentary, filmed after his bankruptcy filing, the former Met and Phillie explains the importance of a private plane to his contentedness. “I said, O.K., I know I’ll be happy when I buy my own Gulfstream,” says Dykstra, reflecting on the place he purchased in 2007. “But I got down to the end of the nose, I looked back and I said, O.K., happy, come on, come on. So it’s not about the Gulfstream. But it is about the Gulfstream. Meaning it just wasn’t as good a Gulfstream as I wanted.”
Um, Lenny, there’s something you should know. The day a Gulfstream buys anyone happiness is the day (more…)
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January 29, 2012
Those who have found true happiness have discovered that it cannot be found through the ego or by the fulfillment of desires. This little anecdote is a clever way to convey that message.

A man said to the Buddha, “I want (more…)
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July 25, 2011
If your happiness depends on achieving your goals precisely as you have envisioned, on events playing out according to your wishes, or on other people doing exactly what you want them to do, you are condemning yourself to a lifetime of misery.
When everything has to be right, something isn’t.
Stanislaw Lec
Giving your best and learning along the way are more important than the ultimate outcome of your efforts.
And what if I did run my ship (more…)
Tags:attachment, detachment, expectations, goals, happiness, inner peace, outcomes, results
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May 27, 2011

Fulfilling your desires can produce occasional bursts of happiness, but the pleasures of the material world are both fickle and fleeting. Getting exactly what you want may make you happy today, but it may be the opposite of what will make you happy tomorrow.
More tears are shed over answered prayers than unanswered ones.
Saint Teresa of Avila
Instead of fretting about having what you want, you will be happier and more peaceful if you focus on wanting what you have.
The foolish man seeks (more…)
Tags:appreciation, desires, gift, happiness, prayers
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March 16, 2011
While researching a magazine article I was writing, I found myself talking to Scott Clemente, the president of St. Louis Park, Minnesota-based Mulberrys Garment Care. Scott had a great story about how disappointment can actually steer you toward your destiny. When he lost his job, he momentarily lost hope . . . until his dad uttered two words that sent Scott’s life spiraling off in an exciting new direction. I interviewed Scott and wrote up his story. I trust you’ll find it as inspiring and uplifting as I did.

Scott Clemente
In August 2001, I was twenty-six and working in an investment bank in London. I wanted to make a career move so I accepted a job at a private equity firm, also in London. Before beginning my new job, I took a month off to travel. While I was in Italy, September 11 happened. A week after that, I was sitting in a cafe in Bologna when I got a call from my new boss to be. He informed me that (more…)
Tags:destiny, disappointment, happiness, job loss
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October 12, 2010

Paramahansa Yogananda meditating
Meditation is not an emptying of the mind. It is the highest form of concentration in which the mind is focused entirely on God. What we call happiness is negligible compared to the inner peace and exultation of spirit we attain in meditation.
Happiness, the province of the ego, is fleeting. Joy, the (more…)
Tags:beauty, bliss, concentration, God, happiness, inner peace, joy, meditation, spiritual
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June 27, 2010
I just finished reading Running from Safety by Richard Bach. It’s a good read about his spiritual approach to life. I especially loved Chapter Twenty-Nine (pages 165-170) in which Bach uses his experience as a technical writer for the Douglas Aircraft Company to expound on what it means to have true security (Hint: It’s not a full-time job working for somebody else).
Shop for security over happiness and you buy it, at that price.
Richard Bach
I agree wholeheartedly with Bach’s conclusions about the illusion of external security. Place your security in the hands of others and your future is anything but secure. The best parts of you will lay dormant, their yearning for expression gradually eroding into fitful dreams of what might have been. Here’s a great quote from Bach in that chapter:
Don’t tell me that my security comes (more…)
Tags:do what you love, happiness, personal responsibility, Richard Bach, security
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April 18, 2010

What we call happiness is negligible compared to the inner peace and ecstatic joy we attain in meditation. Happiness, the province of the ego, is fleeting. Joy, the natural state of the soul, is infinite and eternal.
Still your mind in me, still yourself in me, and without a doubt you
shall be united with me, Lord of
Love, dwelling in your heart.
Bhagavad Gita 12:8
Enriching your inner life is only half the equation. If the peace and unconditional love you feel in meditation is not (more…)
Tags:actively calm, calmly active, conscious living, happiness, joy, meditation, serving humanity, soul, spiritual life, unconditional love
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