Posts Tagged ‘soulmate’

Like a Mansion Built Upon the Sand

November 13, 2011


A spiritual union is a divine friendship between two people who are equally devoted to each other’s well-being and best interests.





All love that has not friendship for its base,
Is like a mansion built upon the sand.
Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Hand in hand, they step down from pedestals of preconceived notions and delight in (more…)

Locks That Fit Each Other’s Keys

November 11, 2011



Only when you are comfortable with who you are can you truly be comfortable with who your significant other is.

The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
Thomas Merton




The more authentic you both are, the safer you both will feel and the stronger your relationship will be.

A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the (more…)

A Day-to-Day Work of Art

November 7, 2011


In an authentic spiritual relationship, each partner feels free to express their fears, frustrations, and longings, knowing that the other will listen carefully and respond thoughtfully.



The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but hold hands.
Alexandria Penney

Recognizing that wants can be sacrificed but needs cannot, they give special attention to exploring how (more…)

Joy Is a Nutrient of Love

November 6, 2011



Intimacy flourishes through effort, but love itself grows effortlessly when both partners feel blessed by the sweet caress of joy in each other’s presence.

Joy is a nutrient of love: it makes love grow.
Nathaniel Branden





Communication is the linchpin of spiritual unions. No subject is off limits. Soulmates do not argue, they discuss.

The first duty of love is (more…)

Let Your Love Be Like the Misty Rains

November 3, 2011


Your soulmate is a means to your destiny, the only person who can reveal and draw out parts of you that you have yet to explore.

Our partner is essential to the discovery of our own calling, and in a curious way shows us what we want, or more exactly, shows us what is wanted of us from within ourselves and our world.
Thomas Moore





Love may come naturally, but sustaining and deepening a loving relationship requires (more…)

Love Attracts Love

October 26, 2011



Like most of the human race, you likely have yearned for a soulmate: someone to love, to be intimate with, to share your life with.

Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
Robert Frost




The urge to find your beloved is not merely a human instinct, it is a Universal force that connects you to the deep love of God through the gateway of your heart.

Loving another person is not separate from (more…)

Seeking a Soulmate

January 22, 2010

Finding the right romantic partner can calm your restless spirit and splash vibrant color over your black-and-white world.

Your ideal partner is patiently waiting until you learn to see and appreciate the beauty and perfection within yourself. Self-acceptance is a prerequisite to a healthy relationship. After all, if you do not love yourself, how can you expect anyone else to?

We must be our own before we can be another’s.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

Your search for a beloved will be more successful if, instead of trying to find the right person, you (more…)