Six years ago, a friend of mine was angry because the young woman who lived behind him was playing loud music and partying at one or two in the morning. In the middle of the night, he got dressed, walked over to her place and taped a note to the door telling her to be quiet.
The next day, this woman stormed over to my friend’s house and laid into him as soon as he answered the door. In the middle of her tirade, she accused him of coming over to her place not to place a note on her door but to watch her taking a shower — something that made no sense and that she obviously made up on the spot. My friend was completely flummoxed.
Watching this, I was both appalled and fascinated. It slowly dawned on me exactly what her strategy was . . .
Lie, deny, attack. Use blame and shame as weapons.
Talk very loud, talk over everyone else, and don’t stop talking.
At the time, I didn’t realize how common this strategy was. But now I see it all over the cable news shows and in pretty much every political discussion.
And it has to stop. It’s dishonest, deceptive, and deceitful.
It doesn’t matter if you’re Republican or Democrat, artist, athlete, activist, or ordinary citizen. If you resort to this strategy, you’re essentially announcing, “I am a liar and a bully.”
And one day or another, in one way or another, you will find that being a liar and a bully comes at a steep, steep cost.
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