Becky Sturm: Sinking Is Not an Option

Becky Sturm

As William Arthur Ward noted, “Adversity causes some men to break; others to break records.” Like hundreds of thousands of others, Becky Sturm’s career was bodyslammed by the recession. But she not only got up off the mat, she fought back. I love never-say-die stories like this, in which an entrepreneur does whatever it takes to reinvent herself. Bravo, Becky!

During an interview with Becky, she told me her story:

Getting a loan to improve the cash flow of StormSister Spatique, my three-year-old St. Paul boutique, should have been a slam dunk. I had borrowed $20,000 from Cherokee Bank two years earlier and paid it back in eleven months. So when my banker called and told me my loan request had been denied, I laughed and said, “You must be looking at the wrong application.” He said he wasn’t, and that my income-to-debt ratio was too low. I tried three more financial institutions and got three more thumbs down. I was in shock. I had always just walked into a bank and walked out with a check. I was in my forties, owned a home, wasn’t behind on credit card payments, had never defaulted on a personal or professional loan, and I couldn’t get a loan to save my soul? None of it made any sense.

Within a few days, I made a life-changing decision. After spending twenty-six years in the salon and spa industry and selling everyone else’s products, I decided it was time to design and sell my own product. Having spent so many years in that industry, I understand beauty products and ingredients. One product I carried was pretty cool but I thought it could have multiple purposes, so I contacted the manufacturer and asked if I could design my own version of it. They were glad to help me. I named my new plant-based product “Shhh” because it has three uses: shampoo, shower and shave. All ingredients are natural and sustainable, and it’s designed and manufactured locally.

Even though I felt that something was working very hard to point me in a new direction, closing my boutique in October 2010 was horrible. When I finally said the words out loud, I broke down. But instead of staying frustrated and angry, I knew I had to pay attention to the opportunities that were trying to present themselves. I was in sink or swim mode and sinking was not an option.

Click here to visit StormSister Spatique, Becky’s online beauty shop.


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2 Responses to “Becky Sturm: Sinking Is Not an Option”

  1. Serena Says:

    Great story!

  2. Phil Bolsta Says:

    Glad you liked it, Serena!

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