When I was twenty-three, financial challenges forced me to sell off my baseball card collection. I realize how trivial this may sound to some of you. But I had been collecting cards since I was six years old and they were precious to me.
I remember biking home from the drugstore at seven years old with a box of baseball cards—filled with twenty-four packs at a nickel each—and sitting at our family room table lovingly opening each pack, checking each card against my checklist, and organizing them into appropriate piles. My happiness could not have been more complete. Saying goodbye to my baseball cards felt like I was losing my best friends—and a big piece of my youth as well. I miss them to this day.
In hindsight, however, I am glad I had to let them go. If I hadn’t, I would have continued to immerse myself in my hobbies—baseball cards, comic books, coins, and stamps. And chances are I would have continued to be a self-absorbed, unenlightened nerd. Just thinking of the person I used to be makes me cringe. Back then, I didn’t have a clue that I didn’t have a clue.
Losing my baseball cards was the first time I had to deal with profound loss. I know, that’s pretty laughable when compared to people who have lost loved ones, homes, their life savings—and especially their innocence at a young age. But that was my experience, and I didn’t have the maturity and wisdom at the time to put it into proper perspective.
But I do now. And I am grateful that life forced me to grow up and get a clue. Repeatedly. I see clearly now that every difficult time in my life, whether it was financial challenges, losing jobs or ending relationships, carried with it the seeds of opportunity and growth. If life had gone exactly as I planned, I wouldn’t be half the man I am today. As Paramahansa Yogananda so adroitly noted, a smooth life is not a victorious life.
So if you’re going through a tough time right now, I hope you can find come measure of solace in these words of wisdom:
You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you.
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